Five Types of Singles (The Sequel–Back by Popular Demand!)
Summer loving had me a blast
Summer loving happened so fast
I met a girl crazy for me
Met a boy cute as can be. ~~ The Movie GREASE
Since January 2025, we have observed a happier clientele entering and pairing off in our club. Happy people are more magnetic, and therefore, they are coupling quickly. Many of our couples have been a “one and done” meaning their first date was the ONE. Summer is heating up for our clients and couples. We enjoy hearing about their lavish vacations planned this summer–which they would not have done as a single. As Matchmakers, this is the most incredible phenomenon to witness. You can’t measure the amount of joy we feel when we receive good news that the match was a hit. We are matchmakers because of all of you. You inspire us, and fortunately, we attract exceptional individuals who are far above settling for online dating. The cream rises to the top and we are blessed to be surrounded by so many leaders, doers, movers, and shakers here in our club.
The movie Grease said it best: “Summer loving can happen so fast.” It sure can but you need to be in the right place at the right time to meet the right person. Alignment and alliance are key. One of our female clients recently said: “Kelly and Miranda, I can’t believe how much my life has changed in just 30 days. I never expected this to happen so fast.” She and her beau just booked their first vacation together. They will be spending two weeks in the Hamptons.
Matchmaking success is contingent on what type of person we represent. Self-awareness is a sign of a good client. We challenge you to diagnose yourself today. Discover “What type of single are you?” and/or “What type of person you are dating or have dated?” If motivated, you can change the trajectory of your summer in the very first meeting in our office.
Thank you for sharing your time with us today. Be sure to share this message of love and hope with your single family and friends. Someone you know needs this message. Pass it on!
The Curmudgeon Single: This person can rise from the ashes. Key traits: cranky, pessimistic, over-critical, bitter, and judgmental. There is a chronic dilemma with a desire to date out of their “league.” This individual may have been cheated on or suffered a significant financial loss in life and never recovered. This person could benefit from therapy and a change in attitude. However, they become less likely to have an awakening as they age. Address this issue promptly. SIDE EFFECT: We occasionally meet this type in our office, and they scoff at the thought of paying to meet people. They are too blind to realize that they have been paying their whole life in one way or another in the form of wasted time, dating the wrong ones, divorce settlements, and heartache. These clients are tough to manage, and we often opt-out depending on the level of curmudgeon. We don’t want them around you or us.
The HopeFULL Romantic: In our opinion, this is the only way to fly! Luckily, “most” of the people we meet in our office are this type … which is WHY they came to see us. This person has felt love. They have felt heartache and possibly betrayal, but they continue to love again, and they always do. WHY? Because they believe in love AND they know they are lovable. This person has a high success rate, and the odds are in their favor (especially if they have a community of like-minded single candidates). Their life is good financially, physically, and emotionally, but their ultimate desire is to find a special person. They want a partner. They don’t need a partner. SIDE EFFECT: This is our typical client…thank heavens!
The Lucy Goosey: Typically female. She is desperate and can’t stand to be alone. Often found in bars or online dating sites, this woman tends to jump from one man to another. She confuses physical intimacy with love and is often left with feelings of rejection, insecurity, and jealousy because she is rarely the “chosen one.” She lacks discretion when she dates and will date “anyone” who pays attention to her. She has low standards. This woman’s motive can be financial gain. SIDE EFFECT: This type rarely comes into our office because she will settle for almost any man on a barstool or a dating site. She likely sees herself as unworthy of our caliber of gentlemen.
The Even Steven: Commonly divorced or never married. The male counterpart of Lucy Goosey. He wants love and intimacy but can’t seem to shake off his past failures in life and love. He self-sabotages and is self-destructive. This man blames women for all his failings and suffers from great insecurity in and out of the bedroom. He also over-compensates for his weakness by seeking multiple notches on his headboard to get EVEN with the opposite sex. SIDE EFFECT: We meet very few of these men in our office because most men like this prey in bars and online. Typically, they don’t meet Revolution Dating requirements.
The Past Life Blessed: Here is where our heartstrings go. This is the most rewarding demographic to represent. Widow or widower of any age, although typically age 60 to 80 plus. This male or female has had a special marriage. They have grieved appropriately and are now ready to find a new companion. We have seen many widows and widowers find love again in our club. Like HOPEFULL ROMANTICS, there can be a chapter after the loss of a spouse. The generation of seniors today is different from that of our grandparents. They date without guilt. Our senior clients are having a ball (see below photos). SIDE EFFECT: We see it all the time in the club. Seventy is the new fifty. This is our favorite demographic because they know how to get along with others, which includes their matchmakers.
Whatever you are (or are not), seek out the best in others, and they will find the best in you! No one is perfect. Let’s all enjoy the Summer of Love 2025. Come together in person and offline. It’s the perfect time to join our movement. We have six months until 2026. Some call this month “Christmas in July.” Where do you want to be in two months or how do you want to spend the holidays? Find your person Pre-Fall Season by reserving your first appointment today. You are the CEO of your life and it is in your power to choose happiness. You deserve it, right?
Wishing everyone a Happy Fourth of July…. I hope the passion of July stays with you forever. For priority scheduling, please mention Code: LOVEJULY when you speak to your matchmaker on the phone.
XOXO, Kelly & Miranda
#MatchmakingRoyalty #ChristmasInJuly #CallStartLove #DateOffline #TellYourFriends
Kelly Leary, M.S.© is CEO and Founder of Revolution Dating which she launched in 2014. Kelly has 34 years in the dating industry and a master’s degree in clinical psychology. She has been written about in Modern Luxury Magazine Palm Beach and Modern Luxury Manhattan, The Palm Beach Post, The Shiny Sheet, Stuart News, Jupiter Magazine, and many more. Revolution Dating clients are pre-screened in person, including background checks and ID verification. Professional photos are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is NOT online dating or blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive club memberships, Kelly and Miranda also provide feedback from dates when appropriate. Mock Dates are available by request. Single Coaching Sessions and Evaluations are also available by request for non-members or as an add-on to some memberships. *All inquiries are confidential *Specializing in representing jet-setting clients with a second home in the Northeast Area. Do call the central hotline at 561-630-9696 (XOXO) or scan the QR code to hold your place in the club. Why wait? Just Date!
Red Hot Summer at Revolution Dating!
Enjoy these Behind The Scenes photographs from the Corporate Headquarters of Love on PGA Boulevard where this landmark business has been for eleven successful years. Upscale single, divorced, and widowed clientele are attracted to the “love offline” approach to dating and the demand for quality matchmakers is soaring. Romance and opportunities are heating up at this matchmaking firm which is loved up and down the coast of the United States. Revolution Dating specializes in screening and representing clients from the Northeast to Palm Beach for decades. A picture is worth one thousand words, so jump on in and make some fireworks for yourself. Isn’t it time you did something for you? If so, secure your first interview today or you could miss out on the power of “summer loving” that truly “happens so fast” in our office. Every day clients are pairing off two at a time and every day new people are starting the process. Happy 4th of July from our family to yours! do #TellYourFriends #SummerLove2025
